I know that starting difficult conversations is never easy.

And I get it – it’s not easy to tackle hard topics when you don’t want to offend or hurt the other person. Your anxiety gets the best of you because you’re so worried about what could go wrong.

I see your effort and I want you know it’s normal to feel nervous.

Honestly, I feel that way too when I need to have hard conversations.

1. eted, take the time to create shared meaning.

Be open

Keep an open mind. Go in with a clear plan and at the same time, go in with a goal to understand the other person’s point of view.

I know you can handle these conversations with grace and strength.

Remember, I still feel nervous too – it’s okay to feel nervous – that just means you care about the outcome. With practice, I promise these conversations will become more manageable.

Facing these challenges head-on is never a bad idea.

You don’t have to give up your kind heart and strong spirit. Bring that same compassion and wisdom to these conversations that you do with everything else and you’ll be alright.

Cheers,

Chris

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If you’re interested in more ways to manage difficult conversations, I also have a podcast, The Art and Science of Difficult Conversations. Available wherever you get your podcasts and on Youtube